I can’t really make friends with anyone as they kinda just ignore me when I try to talk to people. Gay trans people seem to fit in a lot more which is great, but I’m not gay.Īnd this has left me with a lot of feelings.
FTM IN GAY BAR SEX LICENSE
These gay bars will at times say they welcome trans people and they do, I get called my name even though my license still has my dead name & I can feel safe using the bathroom. And now I don’t even have sexual orientation in common with anyone at a gay bar. Right? Except, I actually had way more luck meeting woman going to non-gay bars that catered more to my interests(pretty much all the women I met were bi). But it was what I was supposed to do to find a woman. Going to a place where they don’t play music I like, where the drinks aren’t the drinks I like, & the only thing that I seem to have in common with anyone is my sexuality. I always had conflicting feelings on going to gay bars even pre transition. I am starting to pass more, but I can’t use the bathroom if someone else is in there, I live in a liberal city, but have been harassed in the bathroom.īut the thing is, I don’t think I fit in anymore. But the other is because gay bars tend to not have gendered bathrooms. Part of the reason I started doing this again was for support as they start opening again, I saw multiple gay bars close because of Covid. I’ve been going to a gay bar again for the first time in years. Always seek the advice of your qualified health care provider regarding any medical questions. This information is not intended nor recommended as a substitute for medical advice. We only provide general information about medical transition, which may be misleading for your individual circumstances. The members of this subreddit do not act as medical professionals. Check here for a history list of recurring threads sorted by new. Selfies, Selfie-similar pictures, and vocal range images may only be posted in the appropriate dedicated, recurring threads. Some highlights: mark NSFW items as NSFW, do not post illegal content, do not create a new account to avoid a ban. If you edit content in a significant way, specify where you edited it. Users fundraising may post in our monthly Fundraiser thread.įlair your posts Do not use the flairs "ModPost" or "Recurring" as they are reserved.
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